Do You Feel Attractive?

We don’t always feel as attractive as we’d like to be.

5 favorite attraction quotesSometimes it’s difficult not to wish that we looked like our favorite celebrity or even our good-looking best friend.

Then we think we might feel better about ourselves, have more confidence and finally get the guy or feel secure in our relationship or even just secure in ourselves.

But believe me, you are ALREADY beautiful in your own unique way, you just might not recognize that fact.

Here are five of my favorite quotes about attraction and what attracts others to us. Read more »

What To Do If He Takes You For Granted

If you feel that your guy doesn’t value you the way he should and that you’re putting much more into the relationship than he is, it seems you’re being taken for granted. There’s an imbalance there in that he always feels he can count on you to please him, but he’s not making an effort to keep you happy.

Don't Let Him Take You For GrantedYou have to address this because the situation won’t improve while he’s happily getting all his needs met.

You will just get more and more resentful, and it will put a strain on your relationship.

It’s no fun being taken for granted or playing the martyr. It’s time to redress the balance.

what not to do

If you want your relationship to last, don’t start playing games with him. Ignoring him or trying to make a point by “giving him a taste of his own medicine” isn’t mature and won’t help him appreciate you. In many instances, your man won’t even be aware that he’s taking you for granted, and playing mind games won’t help you to get your point across.

what to do

Instead of playing games to get your own back, here’s a seven step plan you can follow to deal with the problem. Read more »

5 Things To Find Out About Your Date

You’re dating a new guy and all went so well on the first date that you’re going out with him again this week and you can’t wait to see him. Before you fall too far too fast, it’s time to start finding out a few more things about him.

Find Out About Your DateIt’s good to keep the first date fun and flirty, just to see if you click. You’ll naturally find out a few things about each other but not necessarily all you would like to know.

The second to third dates are about the right time to go into deeper discovery mode, though you need to make sure you both have a fun time on every date and not make it seem like a job interview or the Spanish Inquisition.

You’re going out with a guy to see if you like spending time with him, after all, not looking for a meal ticket for life. But if you’re looking for a long term partner, you do want someone with his act together and not a guy who’s got major boyfriend flaws.

Here are five things you need to find out and how to go about getting him to open up without seeming like you’re giving him a boyfriend assessment test. Read more »

Don’t Fall In Love Too Far Too Fast

If a guy makes your heart beat faster right from the first date, try to exercise a bit of caution before you start dreaming of your future together.

Don't Fall In Love Too Far Too FastYesterday we established that love at first sight does exist, but you can’t actually tell if the “love” that you’re experiencing will turn out to be the long-lasting kind or whether becoming better acquainted with your guy will wipe those loving feelings clean away.

So at the beginning of your relationship, you can be pleased you met him, look forward to seeing him again, and hope he turns out to be the one, but you can’t know for sure whether he will be the love of your life. You don’t even know whether you truly like him in the early stages. So don’t get carried away and fall in love too far too fast.

Reserve judgment about the possibility of a long-term relationship with him until you know him better. This may take several dates or even several months depending how much time you spend together and how open he is. Read more »

Does Love at First Sight Exist?

The idea of falling in love at first sight has been around forever. It features in early Greek literature and is a recurrent theme in all kinds of romantic plays, books and movies to this day.

Does Love at First Sight Exist?But the question remains, do people really fall in love ‘at first sight’ or is it just something we’ve come to believe by reading or watching countless movies, novels, and soap operas?

Is it just that we just like the idea of fate playing a hand in our romantic lives?

Some truth in it

It fact, when you look at phenomenon of love at first sight more closely, there is some truth in it.

Researchers have been studying the science behind this kind of instant attraction. It seems many more senses than just sight are at play in those first moments of meeting someone that tell our brain if the person you just met is “right” for you. Read more »