Sometimes when you’re with a guy (whether you just met him or you’ve been together for some time), you wonder if you should stay with him or you should get out of there and try to meet someone else.
Sometimes we are too inclined to hope for the best or to give him the benefit of the doubt.
If romance is in the air, and especially if there’s chemistry, women are excellent at ignoring all kinds of red flags that our rational selves and our best friends warn us about.
But who listens to their rational brain or their best friend when love is in the air
But you really should.
In the video below by Digital Romance Inc Joe Amoia explains how to work out if a guy is the right guy for you or not. He reckons if you experience any of the following feelings, he is NOT the right guy for you. If you detect feelings of
on a regular basis when you think about your relationship, you can be pretty confident that you are better to give this guy his marching orders. He just isn’t doing what he needs to do for you. He isn’t adding to your life. He is subtracting from it.
Anytime you experience negative emotions like that, it means your basic needs are not being met. And you definitely don’t want to go through life in that way.
No matter how many excuses you come up with for him, he can’t change and become someone who he is not. You’re asking too much of him if you expect that. You are who you are and he is who he is. You have to accept that.
Look at your previous relationships that didn’t work out. Did you experience these emotions regularly? Chances are that you did. Don’t fall into the same trap again.
Here’s the video, if you want to watch it for yourself.
Over to you: Does the message in this video ring true with you? Do you agree with the signs that he’s the wrong guy? Please share your experience in the comments below.