Four Signs A Guy Is Attracted To You

You can easily tell if a guy is attracted to you if he asks you out on a date or, even more so, if he asks you to move in with him or marry him!

Four Signs A Guy Is Attracted To YouBut perhaps you want to know before that, perhaps before you get to know him? Or perhaps you have a friend you’d like to get to know romantically and you’re not sure if he sees you that way.

Can you tell if a guy is attracted to you then?

According to Matthew Hussey author of “Get the Guy” you can do that because there are some tell-tale signs that he thinks you are hot.

Here are the four signs a guy is attracted to you that Matthew outlines in the video below.

  • Proximity – Does he find ways to get close to you? Guys who are attracted find ways to gravitate towards you whether in a bar or a book store.
  • Touch – Does he look for ways to touch you? These don’t have to be sexy or sleazy. He might high five you or place a guiding hand on your back in a playful way.
  • Body Language – When he talks to you does he lean in as opposed to being overly chilled out, leaning back and relaxed? If you’re in a loud environment perhaps he comes close to you each time you say something so he can hear what you say. That means he’s interested.
  • Smiling – How much does he smile when he’s talking to you? Does he laugh when you say something and look really engaged and like he’s having fun? If he’s attracted to you then he will think your bad jokes are funny and will smile just when you’re talking normally.

Here’s the video if you want to watch it.

Over to you: Have you noticed Matthew’s signs of attraction in guys you have been out with past or present? Please share in the comments below.

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  1. Got it, but attraction has different meanings: sexually attracted, intellectually, spiritually, sister-like … or the kind of attraction we all yearn for – someone to share our lives with?

    • Ana says:

      Thanks for your comment Judy. All of the above would be good, but most of those types of attraction you can’t tell without really getting to know someone. It’s a shame that we rarely give the rest a chance to develop without the initial spark being present, but that’s the way of the fast-paced world we seem to be living in these days.
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  2. I’ve been married for 30 years, so have not been in the new relationship situation for a very long time. However, now that I see my kids dating, it’s fun seeing these signs in their relationships!

  3. There’s that certain unspoken something that lets us know and these are all some of its ingredients. It’s not so hard to figure out. Sometimes, though, we deny what we know to be true. Either way.
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  4. Tamsin says:

    Good points, Ana. Taking the time to listen to you is another good sign!
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  5. Suzie Cheel says:

    Interesting one thing he seems to be missing is soul, spirit and conversation, just saying. 🙂 I think if you are tapped into your heart, you can connect on that level too
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    • Ana says:

      I think you’re right Suzie but it depends what stage you are at in your life whether you are ready to hear about soul, spirit and conversation. Sometimes that comes later after all the period of “does he like me/doesn’t he?” Thanks for your comment.
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  6. Misty Spears says:

    I love these. I’m going on 3 years married and I love that I can read these and see my husband still does these with me. He is still that guy who has to put his hand in the small of my back when he leads me through a door, he always holds open doors actually, and he finds ways to touch me constantly. The fact that we both smile and laugh with each other daily just thrills me and warms my heart! Great article Ana!
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